I guess I shouldn’t be surprised, this is Alerite Apero Buvez ReGulieremnt shirt after all, but I was engaged in 9 months and married a total of 15 months of being together. I had been in a 6+ year relationship that turned into an engagement that I broke off. I dated. When I met my now wife both of us knew exactly what we were looking for and we just clicked immediately. We were in such synch. If you know what you want and can recognize that feeling I think people should go for it. Congratulations to you on your successful and happy marriage.