Some people, like this woman, are simply being honest about how life is for them right now. Telling her how feeling blessed and grateful makes it all better for you does not help, and really, is a slap in the face. Actual support would be telling her if you know of any mom groups out there, tips on timesaving or organization methods that help make things easier, or just acknowledging that it does suck sometimes–and leaving it at that. If it doesn’t suck a little–I think you’re doing it wrong, because 99% of us love our kids beyond anything describable–and have sacrificed accordingly.
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We are allowed to feel that–and mourn that part of it, without the inevitable “well, I just force myself to feel grateful and that makes it all better!” Do you not think she feels grateful when she looks at what she has? Understand this–the feeling this woman described and gratitude are not mutually exclusive. She’s just not forcing herself to replace or deny her other feelings with it–and, in my opinion–that way, the gratitude we feel, which is plenty–is more genuine.